I also have my nose out of joint. It's sort of a running issue with me right now, what with this whole domicile discombobulation of discontent. But today I was essentially told that I wasn't worth the salary I get paid. (Ouch.) And it came from someone very close to me, who I would have expected to understand just what it takes to do my job. I was told that negotiating a higher salary at my next job would make me "arrogant" (her exact words--ouch, again) and is unreasonable to expect, and that I should be lucky to be getting what I'm getting paid--which is the exactly the same as it was $10 years ago when I started in this specialty). Which, for my field, is pretty much laughable wages. Not that I expect to get rich in this profession, but it can be a very lucrative field for those who "it." Apparently, I don't fall into that category.
The irony of this situation is that I recently gave a lecture to my class about how our work is our work, it is not us... we take our work so incredibly personally and we shouldn't. Blah, blah, blah. Here I am now getting my universal come-uppance I guess and being given an opportunity to walk my talk and not take the criticism of my work personally.
To add to my cloud of cosmic despondancy, I heard on the radio that WICKED! San Francisco is closing. I'm very sad.
Not cool! I'm trying to even think of an appropriate comment but I'm just speechless on your behalf.
ReplyDeleteThat sucks.
I'm sorry you are discombulated, too.
Big hugs!